Life is truly what we make of it. Different tools we develop assist us make life into a positive happening. Through the struggles in my life, I have had the chance to be taught a few helpful hints. They are the following hints that you can also use in order to fight with life's challenges constructively. 1. Sometimes you just need a bat, that way when the rocks of life get tossed; you have a chance at hitting a home run. Life can hit us hard, at any time, but it is our actions that decide if we go up and continue on. Sometimes part of growing up is learning what goals and dreams are sensible for us. Recognizing when to move on can be a device in serving us continue in a positive course. Goals and dreams are important and should be set at levels that are challenging but not destructive in our lives. That equilibrium can mean all the difference between growing and failing. 2. Often we have to see the hope in another's eyes before we see the hope in our own. We have fought many battles in the last few years and have found this to be one of the truest facts. When I can't see a tomorrow, I only have to look around to see another person's situation, no matter how unusual, and be glad for my own blessings. I have also been told that people around me can find route from the examples I have set. Our struggles make us strong and may help others as well. 3. Just because the road is rocky and steep doesn't mean it is the wrong one. Tough climbs often arrive at the mountain top before easy paths. The view will always be beautiful from the top. Smooth trails have no foot holds with which to guide our feet. Trials in life give us stepping stones to lead us on.